Therapy & Coaching

Are You Ready to Embrace Love on the Autism Spectrum?

At Love on the Autism Spectrum, we offer specialized coaching and therapy programs designed to help neurodiverse individuals and couples build fulfilling, joyful, and deeply connected relationships—with tailored strategies to navigate love, communication, and partnership with confidence and ease.

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How We Can Help

Are you or your partner neurodiverse?

Challenge 1:

Are you attempting to navigate the individual challenges of living with Autism, ADHD, or Complex Trauma?

Challenge 2:

Do you struggle with the loss of intimacy and connection in your relationship?

Challenge 3:

Are you the neurotypical partner who is tired of feeling lonely in your relationship with your Autistic, ADHD, or Complex-Trauma diagnosed partner?

If this is you, or you and your spouse, we will support you in rewriting your challenging communication patterns.

Get Evaluated

Autism & ADHD Assessments for Adults

Knowledge is power, and understanding your unique neurodivergent traits can unlock a new level of self-awareness. A professional assessment goes beyond surface-level assumptions, providing a comprehensive evaluation rooted in expertise and evidence-based practices. Our assessments are available to people in California only.

Autism Assessments

Gain a deep understanding of how Autism may shape your experiences, relationships, and professional life. We utilize evidence-based tools that provide accurate, thorough insights into your unique experiences and help identify social perception challenges that may impact your daily life. With these comprehensive Adult Autism Assessments, you can better understand yourself and take the steps necessary to live a fulfilling life. Assessments are completed online, making it convenient and accessible for busy adults.

ADHD Assessments

Uncover the factors driving difficulties with focus, organization, or impulsivity, and learn how to regain control. Using cutting-edge tools, we don’t just scratch the surface. These Adult ADHD Assessments dig deep to uncover the root causes of your challenges. We examine how ADHD impacts your daily life and relationships, focus on executive function, and diagnose challenges like memory or time management. Together, these tools create a comprehensive picture of your unique needs.

Founder

Hi, I’m Barbara ‘Blaze’ Lazarony

Love, understood. Connection, redefined.

I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist #151788, specializing in neurodiverse therapy and coaching. With a master’s degree in Clinical Psychology from Sofia University and specialized training in Autism Spectrum Differences, ADHD, and Complex Trauma, I help neurodiverse individuals and couples navigate love, connection, and personal growth with clarity and confidence.

With over 20 years of therapeutic and coaching experience in California and internationally, I understand the unique challenges and strengths of neurodiverse relationships–I’m in one myself! Whether it’s bridging communication gaps, deepening emotional intimacy, or embracing each partner’s unique way of experiencing love, my mission is to help you create a fulfilling and deeply connected partnership.

If you’re ready to transform your love story with deeper understanding, connection, and ease, I’d love to support you on this journey.

Barbara "Blaze" Lazarony, founder of Love on the Autism Spectrum

We Support You with Growth & Acceptance

If you’re looking for a safe and supportive space to navigate the challenges of a relationship that includes Autism, ADHD, or Complex Trauma, I am here to help.

With personal and professional experience in these areas, I understand the unique struggles neurodiverse individuals and couples face. Whether you’re just getting started, seeking a diagnosis, or have been working through these challenges for years, I provide personalized strategies to help you strengthen your relationship, improve communication, and build a deeper connection.

Together, we will:

  • Identify your individual strengths and unique ways of connecting
  • Build a secure bond based on understanding and trust
  • Find a balance between your needs and your partner’s, creating a fulfilling and supportive relationship
  • Foster an environment where intimacy and emotional connection can flourish

My Offerings:

  • Therapy and coaching for individuals and couples
  • Neurodiverse couples retreats for immersive relationship transformation
  • Support groups for individuals and couples navigating neurodiversity
  • Autism & ADHD assessments to provide clarity and understanding

At the heart of my practice is this belief: Your relationship isn’t broken—it simply needs a tailored approach that honors your unique way of connecting.

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