Neurodiverse Therapy & Coaching
Neurodivergent Love Is Not Broken
Honest, trauma-informed support for building love that lasts.
At Love on the Autism Spectrum, we know you and your partner don’t need fixing. You need emotional safety, pattern recognition, and structure that honors how you’re wired.
If traditional therapy hasn’t worked, it may not have been built for you.
This is steady, wiring-aware care for a neurodiverse connection that actually fits.
How We Can Help
Are you and/or your partner neurodiverse?
Whether you’re an individual or part of a neurodivergent relationship, this work is designed to support your nervous system—not push past it. When values, pacing, and communication styles truly align, healing and connection become more sustainable—especially for autistic, ADHD, AuDHD, and trauma-impacted adults.
Challenge 1:
Are you longing for a real connection in your neurodiverse relationship, but feel stuck in the same painful patterns, no matter how hard you both keep trying?
Being present with yourself and your partner is essential to breaking out of these painful patterns and building a supportive relationship.
Challenge 2:
Are you exhausted from carrying the emotional weight in your relationship with a neurodivergent partner, and wondering if support could finally feel like it fits you, too?
Being able to read and understand your own needs and relationship dynamics is a crucial step toward building self-trust.
Challenge 3:
Are you a late-diagnosed or self-identified neurodivergent adult craving clarity, self-trust, and support that finally honors how your brain—and heart—actually work?
Being able to read and understand your own needs and relationship dynamics is a crucial step toward building self-trust.
Get Evaluated
Adult Autism, ADHD & AuDHD Assessments
Knowledge is power, and understanding your unique neurodivergent traits can unlock a new level of self-awareness. A professional assessment goes beyond surface-level assumptions, providing a comprehensive evaluation rooted in expertise and evidence-based practices. In addition, assessments can also support your personal growth and self-awareness, helping you better understand your strengths and challenges in love and life.
Our assessments are available to people in California only.
Adult Autism Assessments
Ready to finally understand how Autism may be shaping your relationships, work, and inner world? Schedule your Adult Autism Assessment today and take the first step toward clarity, self-acceptance, and personalized support that truly fits.
Adult ADHD Assessments
Struggling with focus, being overwhelmed, or managing time, and wondering if ADHD might be part of the story? Book your Adult ADHD Assessment today for clarity, validation, and practical next steps tailored to your unique neurodivergent wiring.
Adult AuDHD Assessments
Having trouble focusing, managing sensory input, riding emotional waves, or feeling pulled in opposite directions? You might be living with AuDHD—a blend of Autism and ADHD that often goes unseen. An Adult AuDHD Assessment can bring clarity, validation, and practical support. Book today to better understand your unique neurodivergent wiring and take the next steps with confidence.
Experience a Private Couples Retreat or Group Support
Seeking A Private Couples Retreat or Ongoing Weekly Couples Group Support?
Discover new ways to connect and grow together. Our private couples retreat or ongoing weekly couples and individual support groups are designed to honor your unique neurodivergent experiences, helping you build deeper understanding, trust, and connection in a safe, compassionate space. Many couples share that these retreats and groups lead to great experiences that foster both personal and relational growth.
Balance and Bonding: A Two-Day Private Neurodiverse Couples Retreat
Ready to reconnect and rebuild your relationship in a space that truly understands neurodivergence? Reserve your spot for the Balance & Bonding Time Retreat, a private, two-day experience designed to bring clarity, connection, and healing to your partnership.
The Love Lab: A Weekly Ongoing Online Neurodiverse Couples Support Group
Looking for ongoing support to help your neurodiverse relationship grow with more understanding, communication, and emotional safety? Join The Love Lab, a weekly group designed for couples like yours, led by a therapist who truly gets it.
Coming Fall of 2026
Are You Tired of Holding It All? A Weekly Support Group for Partners of Neurodiverse People
Feeling unseen, unheard, and utterly exhausted from loving a neurodivergent partner? Tired of Holding It All is a weekly support group created just for you, offering real talk, validation, and a path forward that doesn’t require you to carry everything alone.
Starting in March of 2026
Listen to the Love on the Autism Spectrum Podcast
Now Streaming: Love on the Autism Spectrum Podcast
New Love on the Autism Spectrum Podcast Episodes Streaming Twice Weekly
Real conversations for neurodivergent adults and couples—offering grounded guidance, nervous system-aware support, and care from someone who truly gets it. Listen Here
Tuesdays: Therapy Insights Tuesdays
Wednesdays: Waking Up Neurodivergent Wednesdays
Host: Barbara (Blaze) Lazarony, MA, LMFT
Founder
Hi, I’m Barbara (Blaze) Lazarony
Love, Understood. Connection, Redefined.
Hi, I’m Barbara Lazarony (she/her/they), most people call me Blaze. I’m a neurodivergent therapist and coach, and a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (#151788).
Before becoming a therapist, I spent over 20 years in corporate leadership, gaining firsthand experience with executive stress, organizational dynamics, and the cost of sustained performance. Today, I integrate clinical training, lived experience, and strategic clarity to support neurodivergent adults and couples in more sustainable ways of relating and living.
I hold a master’s degree in Clinical Psychology from Sofia University, with advanced training in Autism, ADHD, and Complex Trauma. I’ve also been in a neurodivergent relationship for over 42 years. I understand—personally and professionally—what it’s like to long for closeness while feeling repeatedly misunderstood.
I work with individuals and couples navigating neurodiverse relationships, identity shifts, burnout, and chronic misattunement. My approach is trauma-informed, neurodiversity-affirming, and grounded in emotional clarity and nervous-system safety. The work moves at a pace your system can sustain.
This is not about fixing you or your relationship.
It’s about creating conditions where honesty, safety, and connection can return.
You don’t need to mask, shrink, or try harder to be understood.
You need support that actually fits.
If you’re ready for steadier connection—with yourself or with your partner—I’d be honored to walk alongside you.
Let's Connect
Let’s Begin Your Next Chapter
Whether you’re burnt out from holding it all, overwhelmed by emotional disconnection, or simply ready for something that actually fits—
You don’t have to shrink, mask, or perform anymore.
You get to feel safe, seen, and supported.
If this resonates with you, I invite you to schedule a “Connection & Clarity” Zoom—my initial consultation designed to gently explore what support could look like. Click the orange button, answer a few quick questions, and then choose a time that works for you to meet with me.
No pressure. Just presence.
Let’s walk this together—with compassion, clarity, and care.
“Take a breath. Settle in. I’m glad you’re here.”
