Neurodiverse Therapy & Coaching
Neurodivergent Couples Therapy & Support in California
Neurodivergent Love Is Not Broken
Honest, steady support for couples and adults who are done trying to fit a mold that was never made for them.
How We Can Help
Are you and/or your partner neurodiverse?
Whether you’re an individual or part of a neurodivergent relationship, this work is designed to support your nervous system — not push past it. When safety, pacing, and communication styles truly align, healing and connection become more sustainable — especially for autistic, ADHD, AuDHD, and trauma-impacted adults.
Challenge 1:
Are you longing for a real connection in your neurodiverse relationship, but stuck in the same painful patterns — no matter how hard you both keep trying?
The path forward isn’t trying harder. It’s finally understanding how you’re each wired — and building from there.
Challenge 2:
Are you exhausted from carrying the emotional weight in your relationship with a neurodivergent partner, wondering if support could finally feel like it fits you, too?
You have needs. They matter. And you don’t have to keep disappearing into the role of the one who holds it all.
Challenge 3:
Are you a late-diagnosed or self-identified neurodivergent adult craving clarity, self-trust, and support that finally honors how your brain — and heart — actually work?
You’re not broken. You were just never given a map that fit. This is the map.
Get Evaluated
Adult Autism, ADHD & AuDHD Assessments
Understanding your neurodivergent wiring can change everything — in your relationships, your work, and the way you see yourself. Our comprehensive assessments go beyond surface assumptions, offering clinical depth and real clarity.
Whether you’re exploring Autism, ADHD, or AuDHD — or wondering if it might be a combination — a professional assessment gives you language, validation, and a foundation to build from.
Our assessments are available to people in California only.
Experience Private or Group Support
Seeking a Private Couples Retreat or Ongoing Weekly Group Support?
Discover new ways to connect and grow. Our private couples retreat and weekly support group are designed to honor your unique neurodivergent experiences — helping you build deeper understanding, trust, and connection in a steady, compassionate space.
Balance and Bonding: A Two-Day Private Neurodiverse Couples Retreat
Ready to reconnect and rebuild your relationship in a space that truly understands neurodivergence? Reserve your spot for the Balance & Bonding Time Retreat, — a private, two-day experience designed to bring clarity, connection, and healing to your partnership.
The Love Lab: A Weekly Ongoing Online Neurodiverse Couples Group
A small, intentional weekly group for neurodiverse couples who want more understanding, connection, and emotional safety in their relationship. Limited to 3–4 couples so every partnership gets real attention in a space that feels genuinely safe.
Enrolling now for Fall 2026 — join the waitlist
Listen to the Podcast
Now Streaming: Love on the Autism Spectrum Podcast
New episodes every Wednesday
Real conversations for neurodivergent adults and couples — grounded guidance, nervous-system-aware support, and honest talk from someone who truly gets it. No performance, no toxic positivity. Just clarity, care, and the occasional deep breath.
Each episode slows things down and makes room for the patterns that actually shape neurodiverse relationships — without blame, pressure, or performance.
Host: Barbara (Blaze) Lazarony, MA, LMFT
Founder
Hi, I’m Barbara (Blaze) Lazarony
I see you. I was you. I am you. And you are not alone…anymore.
Hi, I’m Barbara Lazarony (she/her/they), most people call me Blaze. I’m a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist #151788, neurodivergent couples specialist, and founder of Love on the Autism Spectrum.
I work with neurodivergent couples and individuals who are tired of trying to make approaches work that were never designed for how their minds and nervous systems actually function.
I’ve been in a neurodiverse marriage for over 40 years. I discovered my own neurodivergence at 57 — and when the relief set in, it felt like coming home to myself for the first time. I hold a master’s degree in Counseling Psychology from Sofia University, with advanced training in Autism, ADHD, and Complex Trauma. I’m the creator of the Neurodivergent Spiral of Life™ and the author of Unmasked Self-Acceptance: 365 Days of Coming Home to Who You Really Are.
My work is trauma-informed, neurodiversity-affirming, and grounded in one simple belief: neurodivergent love doesn’t need to be fixed. It needs to be understood and intentionally designed.
You deserve a relationship that feels steady. You deserve to be seen. And you are not alone anymore.
For deeper reflections on neurodivergent love, nervous systems, and coming home to yourself, find me on Substack at blazelazarony.substack.com
Ready to Connect?
Let’s Begin Your Next Chapter
Whether you’re burnt out from holding it all, overwhelmed by emotional disconnection, or simply ready for something that actually fits —
You don’t have to shrink, mask, or perform anymore.
You get to feel safe, seen, and supported.
When you’re ready, I invite you to schedule a FREE 20-minute “Clarity & Connection” Zoom session — a gentle, no-pressure conversation to explore what support could look like for you. Click the button, answer a few quick questions, and choose a time that works.
No pressure. Just presence.
“Take a breath. Settle in. I’m so glad you’re here.”
