Therapy & Coaching
Are You Ready to Embrace Love on the Autism Spectrum?
Honest Support for Neurodivergent Relationships & Healing
Are You Navigating Love, Life, or Leadership with Autism, ADHD, AuDHD, or Complex Trauma?
You’re not broken—you’re wired differently. And you deserve support that truly fits.
If traditional therapy hasn’t worked, it’s not your fault. Most approaches don’t account for the emotional mismatches, sensory needs, and communication differences that come with neurodivergent wiring.
That’s why Love on the Autism Spectrum exists.
This is a place for real conversations, safe connection, and deep healing—without pressure, shame, or blame.
You’re not here to be fixed. You’re here to feel seen, supported, and safe to be yourself.
How We Can Help
Are you or your partner neurodiverse?
Whether you’re an individual, a couple, or both partners in a neurodivergent relationship, we’re here to support you with tools that work with your nervous system, not against it.
Challenge 1:
Are you longing for a real connection in your neurodiverse relationship, but feel stuck in the same painful patterns, no matter how hard you both keep trying?
Challenge 2:
Are you exhausted from carrying the emotional weight in your relationship with a neurodivergent partner, and wondering if support could finally feel like it fits you too?
Challenge 3:
Are you a late-diagnosed or self-identified neurodivergent adult craving clarity, self-trust, and support that finally honors how your brain—and heart—actually work?
Get Evaluated
Adult Autism, ADHD & AuDHD Assessments
Adult Autism Assessments
Ready to finally understand how Autism may be shaping your relationships, work, and inner world? Schedule your Adult Autism Assessment today and take the first step toward clarity, self-acceptance, and personalized support that truly fits.
Adult ADHD Assessments
Struggling with focus, being overwhelmed, or managing time, and wondering if ADHD might be part of the story? Book your Adult ADHD Assessment today for clarity, validation, and practical next steps tailored to your unique neurodivergent wiring.
Adult AuDHD Assessments
Having trouble focusing, managing sensory input, riding emotional waves, or feeling pulled in opposite directions? You might be living with AuDHD—a blend of Autism and ADHD that often goes unseen. An Adult AuDHD Assessment can bring clarity, validation, and practical support. Book today to better understand your unique neurodivergent wiring and take the next steps with confidence
Experience a Private Couples Retreat or Group Support
Seeking A Private Couples Retreat or Ongoing Weekly Couples Group Support?
Discover new ways to connect and grow together. Our private couples retreat or ongoing weekly couples and individual support groups are designed to honor your unique neurodivergent experiences, helping you build deeper understanding, trust, and connection in a safe, compassionate space.
Balance and Bonding Time: A Two-Day Private Neurodiverse Couples Retreat
Ready to reconnect and rebuild your relationship in a space that truly understands neurodivergence? Reserve your spot for the Balance & Bonding Time Retreat, a private, two-day experience designed to bring clarity, connection, and healing to your partnership.
The Love Lab: A Weekly Ongoing Neurodiverse Couples Support Group
Looking for ongoing support to help your neurodiverse relationship grow with more understanding, communication, and emotional safety? Join The Love Lab, a weekly group designed for couples like yours, led by a therapist who truly gets it. Coming in Fall of 2025
Are You Tired of Holding It All? A Weekly Support Group for Partners of Neurodiverse People
Feeling unseen, unheard, and utterly exhausted from loving a neurodivergent partner? Tired of Holding It All is a weekly support group created just for you, offering real talk, validation, and a path forward that doesn’t require you to carry everything alone. Coming in Fall of 2025
Listen to the Love on the Autism Podcast
Now Streaming: Love on the Autism Spectrum Podcast
New Love on the Autism Spectrum Podcast Episodes Twice Weekly
Tuesdays: Therapy Insights Tuesdays
Wednesdays: Waking Up Neurodivergent Wednesdays
Host: Barbara (Blaze) Lazarony, LMFT
Real talk for neurodivergent adults and couples—offering honest guidance, nervous system wisdom, and support from someone who truly understands. Listen Here
Founder
Hi, I’m Barbara (Blaze) Lazarony
Love, Understood. Connection, Redefined.
Hi, I’m Barbara Lazarony (she/her/they), all of my friends call me Blaze. I’m a neurodivergent therapist, coach, and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (#151788).
Before becoming a therapist, I spent over 20 years in corporate leadership roles, gaining firsthand experience in organizational dynamics, executive development, and the complexities of balancing professional and personal growth. I bring over four decades of professional expertise to my work, merging clinical excellence, lived experience, and strategic insight.
I hold a master’s degree in Clinical Psychology from Sofia University and advanced training in Autism, ADHD, and Complex Trauma. My approach blends clinical expertise with lived experience. I’ve been in a neurodivergent relationship for over 42 years, and I know firsthand what it means to long for closeness while feeling constantly misunderstood.
I understand the unique challenges and strengths of neurodiverse relationships—because I live them, too. Whether it’s bridging communication gaps, deepening emotional intimacy, or embracing each partner’s unique way of experiencing love, my mission is to help you create a relationship that feels emotionally safe, fulfilling, and real.
My work is trauma-informed, neurodiversity-affirming, and rooted in emotional clarity. Whether you’re seeking support as an individual or a couple, I offer a non-pathologizing space to explore identity, connection, and self-trust—at a pace that honors your nervous system and your truth.
You don’t need to mask, shrink, or try harder to be understood.
You just need support that finally fits.
If you’re ready to feel seen, supported, and more connected to yourself and your relationships, I’d be honored to walk beside you.
Let's Connect
Let’s Begin Your Next Chapter
Whether you’re burnt out from holding it all, overwhelmed by emotional disconnection, or simply ready for something that actually fits—
You don’t have to shrink, mask, or perform anymore.
You get to feel safe, seen, and supported.
If this resonates with you, I invite you to schedule a “Connection & Clarity” Zoom—my initial consultation designed to gently explore what support could look like. Click the orange button, answer a few quick questions, and then choose a time that works for you to meet with me.
No pressure. Just presence.
Let’s walk this together—with compassion, clarity, and care.
“Take a breath. Settle in. I’m glad you’re here.”
