Adult Autism Assessments

Adult Autism ADHD & AuDHD Assessments in California

Affirming, in-depth assessments for late-diagnosed and high-masking adults — with a neurodivergent clinician who understands your wiring from the inside out.

You've spent years wondering why things feel harder than they seem to for everyone else. Why you mask. Why you crash. Why the world feels like it was built for someone with a completely different nervous system.

An adult autism, ADHD, or AuDHD assessment doesn't give you a label. It gives you language. Clarity. And a path forward that finally fits who you actually are.

All assessments are completed online via telehealth — available to adults throughout California.

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Who This Is For

Who Benefits From an Adult Autism ADHD or AuDHD Assessments?

  • You’ve always felt “different” or disconnected — but never had words for it
  • You relate to descriptions of Autism, ADHD, or AuDHD but never saw yourself in the stereotypes
  • You’ve been misdiagnosed with anxiety, depression, or a personality disorder — and something still feels missing
  • You’ve struggled with burnout, masking, or sensory overload without understanding why
  • You are a woman, BIPOC, or LGBTQIA+ adult who wonders if you were missed by systems not designed to see you
  • You are a late-diagnosed adult seeking language, validation, and a foundation to build from
  • You are ready to understand yourself more clearly — without judgment

This work is not about pathologizing you. It’s about understanding how your brain is wired — so you can stop blaming yourself and start building a life that actually works.

Adult Autism Assessment

Adult Autism Assessment in California

You've done your best to make sense of why life feels harder than it seems it should. You mask your emotions to fit in. You feel exhausted by socializing, confused by unwritten rules, and deeply lonely — even around people.

And still, you wonder:

"Why do I experience the world so differently?"

"Is there a reason everything feels so hard?"

"Could I be autistic and never have known?"

You're not alone — and you're not imagining things.

What Adult Autism Can Look Like

Autistic adults may:

  • Feel exhausted by social interactions or unclear expectations
  • Crave routine and structure to feel calm and grounded
  • Be hypersensitive to noise, light, or textures
  • Struggle to interpret tone, subtext, or facial expressions
  • Engage in repetitive movements or special interests for regulation
  • Mask their differences so well that no one sees their distress

If this resonates, you’re not broken — you’re neurodivergent.

Common Misconceptions About Adult Autism

These myths can delay diagnosis

  • Autistic people lack empathy →False. Many autistic adults are highly empathetic and deeply impacted by others’ emotions.
  • Autism only affects kids → False. Autism is lifelong — and many people aren’t diagnosed until adulthood.
  • Autism looks one way → False. Autism is diverse across gender, race, ability, and presentation.
  • You can’t be autistic if you’re verbal, successful, or social → False. Masking can be invisible and costly.

Diagnosis isn’t about proving autism. It’s about understanding your unique brain.

Why It Matters

Why Getting an Adult Autism Assessment Matters

Many autistic adults go undiagnosed for years — misdiagnosed with anxiety, told their struggles are “too much sensitivity,” or missed entirely because they don’t fit outdated stereotypes. If you’re a woman, BIPOC, or LGBTQIA+ adult, the chances of being overlooked by traditional diagnostic models are even higher.

But getting assessed — on your terms, with someone who sees you — can change everything.

A diagnosis can help you:

  • Reframe your past through a new, compassionate lens
  • Access tailored strategies and accommodations
  • Understand how your brain works — and what it needs to thrive
  • Advocate for your needs without shame
  • Stop internalizing blame for challenges that aren’t your fault

This is about self-knowledge, not labels. It’s about building a life that works for you.

Optional & Not Diagnostic

Free Autism Screening Tools

Before we begin, you're welcome to explore complimentary online screeners to reflect on your traits.

While not diagnostic, they can offer valuable insight and help guide our first conversation.

Screeners are optional and not diagnostic. We'll explore the results together if you choose to complete them.

RAADS 14 Screening Questionnaire

Identifies potential autism spectrum traits in adults.

Autism Spectrum Quotient (AQ)

A widely used initial screening tool for autistic traits.

Camouflaging Autistic Traits Questionnaire (CAT-Q)

Identifies masking and camouflaging behaviors.

Modified Girls Questionnaire for Autism (GQ-ASC)

Designed specifically for adult women on the spectrum.

Clinical Instruments

Autism Diagnostic Tools We Use

All assessments use leading, scientifically validated instruments to provide an accurate and detailed understanding of your experience. What the tests can and cannot tell you.

MIDGAS-2 (Module for the Diagnosis of Autism Spectrum Disorders in Adults)

A structured clinical interview that identifies adult autism traits by exploring patterns across your life.

Family of Origin Questionnaire and a Genogram

Explores the impact of your family dynamics and relational history on your current experience.

SRS-2 (Social Responsiveness Scale, Second Edition)

Evaluates social behaviors and identifies areas of challenge and strength.

After Your Autism Assessment

After Your Autism Assessment: Ongoing Support

A diagnosis is a beginning, not an end. If you choose to continue working together, I offer post-diagnostic support that honors the full complexity of who you are:

  • Individual therapy to process late diagnosis, identity shifts, grief, and unmasking
  • Neurodivergent couples therapy to understand how autism shapes your closest relationships
  • Coaching for sensory needs, nervous system regulation, and sustainable daily rhythms

You don’t have to figure this out alone — and you don’t have to start over somewhere new.

Investment

Adult Autism Assessment Cost — California

Diagnostic Assessment Cost: $1,500

Completed over five 50-minute telehealth therapy sessions

Report Fees:

 

(If desired)

  • Diagnostic Note: $200
  • Diagnostic Summary : $500
  • Comprehensive Evaluation: $800

Additional Assessment Fees

 

(If desired)

  • SPM-2 (Social Perception Module, Second Edition): $300
  • Alexithymia Assessment: $300
  • Pathological Demand Avoidance Assessment (PDA): $300

Accommodation Letters

 

(If desired)

  • For Employment: $200
  • For Education: $200–$800

Payment: Payment Out-of-pocket only. Superbill provided for potential insurance reimbursement.

Adult ADHD Assessment

Adult ADHD Assessment in California

You’re smart, capable, and full of ideas — but somehow, the basics still feel hard. You lose track of time. You forget the next step. You miss deadlines and blame yourself, again.

And inside, you wonder:

“What’s wrong with me?”

“Why can’t I just focus?”

“Why does life feel like an uphill climb?”

You are not lazy. You are not broken. You may be living with undiagnosed ADHD — and finally getting clear can be life-changing.

What Actually Is Adult ADHD?

ADHD (Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder) is a neurodevelopmental condition that impacts focus, time awareness, emotional regulation, impulsivity, and task initiation and follow-through. It’s not about willpower. It’s about how your brain is wired.

ADHD often begins in childhood, but many adults — especially women, intuitive adults, creatives, and those with trauma histories, aren’t diagnosed until much later in life.

When you know what you’re working with, you can stop blaming yourself and start building systems that actually fit your brain.

What Adult ADHD Might Look Like

Work:  Projects begin with excitement but fade into overwhelm. Deadlines pass. Time slips away. You feel like you’re always catching up — but never arriving.

Relationships:  You forget plans. Zone out mid-conversation. Struggle to stay present. People interpret you as inattentive when you’re actually overstimulated, overloaded, or stuck in shame.

Everyday Life:  Keys disappear. Emails go unsent. You toggle between hyperfocus and avoidance, and feel guilty either way. The cycle of distraction, self-criticism, and exhaustion feels endless.

Sound familiar? Let’s bring some compassionate clarity to what’s really going on.

Clinical Instruments

ADHD Diagnostic Tools We Use

All ADHD assessments use gold-standard diagnostic instruments.

Brown EF/A (Executive Function/Attention)

Identifies difficulties with memory, time management, and task organization.

DIVA-5 (Diagnostic Interview for ADHD in Adults)

Aligns your experiences with clinical standards from the DSM-5-TR to ensure an accurate diagnosis.

CAARS-2 (Conners' Adult ADHD Rating Scales)

Examines how ADHD impacts your daily life and relationships. What the CAARS 2 actually measures.

These tools map your ADHD profile clearly, accurately, and respectfully, while honoring your lived experience.

After Your ADHD Assessment

After Your ADHD Assessment: Ongoing Therapy

Understanding your ADHD is the beginning. If you choose to continue working together, I offer ongoing ADHD therapy to support integration, growth, and nervous system regulation.

Through weekly or biweekly sessions, we'll work on:

  • Understanding — making sense of how ADHD affects your energy, relationships, and life patterns
  • Skill-Building — executive function tools like time-blocking, priority setting, emotional regulation, and sensory pacing
  • Emotional Healing — addressing the grief, shame, and burnout that often accompanies late-diagnosed ADHD
  • Self-Compassion — learning to advocate for your needs without apology and celebrate your neurodivergent strengths

Adult ADHD Assessment Cost — California

Diagnostic Assessment Cost: $900

Completed over three 50-minute telehealth therapy sessions

Report Fees:

 

(If desired)

  • Diagnostic Note: $200
  • Diagnostic Summary : $500
  • Comprehensive Evaluation: $800

Acommodation Letters:

 

(If desired)

For Employment: $200

For Education: $200-$800

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Payment: Payment Out-of-pocket only. Superbill provided for potential insurance reimbursement.

Adult AuDHD Assessment

Adult AuDHD Assessment in California

Hyperfocused one moment, scattered the next. Craving routine, but craving novelty too. Deeply empathetic, but easily overwhelmed by the emotions of others. Wanting connection — and needing to disappear.

If this sounds like your life, you might be living with AuDHD — a combination of Autism and ADHD that often goes unrecognized because the two conditions can mask and amplify each other in ways that leave even experienced clinicians confused.

You’re not contradictory. You’re not “a little bit of everything.” You’re a complex, layered human being who deserves a clinician who can hold that complexity without flattening it.

Understanding the Overlap

What Is AuDHD?

AuDHD describes the experience of living with both Autism Spectrum Disorder and ADHD. Research shows that roughly 50–70% of autistic individuals also meet criteria for ADHD — and vice versa. Yet for many adults, especially women and late-identified individuals, the overlap goes undiagnosed for decades.

The two conditions interact in paradoxical ways:

  • ADHD drives novelty-seeking while Autism craves sameness
  • ADHD impairs sustained focus while Autism enables deep hyperfocus
  • ADHD creates emotional impulsivity while Autism creates emotional masking
  • Together, they can produce a presentation that doesn’t quite fit either profile alone

This is why working with a clinician who truly understands both — and how they interact — matters so much.

What AuDHD Might Look Like in Adults

  • Intense, immersive special interests alongside difficulty sustaining attention on anything else
  • Sensory sensitivities worsened by ADHD dysregulation
  • Social exhaustion and the need to mask, paired with impulsive social responses
  • Executive function challenges that feel more extreme than “standard” ADHD
  • Burnout that arrives faster and lasts longer
  • Anxiety, rejection sensitive dysphoria (RSD), and emotional flooding
  • A persistent sense that something is “off” — even after one diagnosis has already been identified

If you’ve received one diagnosis and the picture still feels incomplete, an AuDHD assessment may finally give you the full map.

The AuDHD Assessment Process

Because AuDHD requires careful evaluation of both Autism and ADHD — and their interaction — this is the most comprehensive assessment I offer. It integrates the full diagnostic toolkit from both protocols, plus additional tools to explore how these two neurotypes intersect in your specific presentation.

The process includes:

  • Clinical interview exploring your full personal, developmental, and relational history
  • Autism-specific diagnostic tools: MIDGAS-2, SRS-2, Family of Origin Questionnaire
  • ADHD-specific diagnostic tools: CAARS-2, Brown EF/A, DIVA-5
  • Differential diagnosis to rule out co-occurring conditions
  • A feedback session to review results, discuss implications, and map next steps together

You will leave with clarity, language, and a personalized path forward.

After Your AuDHD Assessment

After Your AuDHD Assessment: Ongoing Therapy

An AuDHD diagnosis opens a door — not just to understanding, but to a different way of living. If you choose to continue working together, I offer post-diagnostic support designed for the full complexity of your wiring:

  • Individual therapy to process late diagnosis, identity, grief, and unmasking
  • Neurodivergent couples therapy to understand how AuDHD shapes your closest relationships
  • Coaching for nervous system regulation, sensory needs, and sustainable daily rhythms

You don't have to figure this out alone — and you don't have to start over somewhere new.

Adult AuDHD Assessment Cost — California

Diagnostic Assessment Cost: $1,800

Combines Adult Autism ($1,500) + Adult ADHD ($900) assessments — integrated and discounted

Completed over a series of 50-minute telehealth sessions

Report Fees:

 

(If desired)

  • Diagnostic Note: $200
  • Diagnostic Summary : $500
  • Comprehensive Evaluation: $800

Additional Assessment Fees

(If desired)

  • SPM-2 (Social Perception Module, Second Edition): $300
  • Alexithymia Assessment: $300
  • Pathological Demand Avoidance Assessment (PDA): $300

Accommodation Letters

  • For Employment: $200
  • For Education: $200–$800

Payment: Payment Out-of-pocket only. Superbill provided for potential insurance reimbursement.

What to Expect

The Assessment Process

Every assessment at Love on the Autism Spectrum is rooted in compassion, clinical excellence, and deep respect for neurodivergent experience. Here is how it works:

  1. Clinical Interview

We’ll explore your personal history, daily patterns, family experiences, and how you’ve learned to adapt — so I understand the full picture, not just a checklist.

  1. Mental Status & Differential Diagnosis

We rule out medical conditions and consider overlapping diagnoses — such as trauma, anxiety, depression, or learning disabilities — to ensure a clear and accurate picture.

  1. Standardized Psychological Testing

You’ll complete structured assessments tailored to your evaluation type, examining the specific areas most relevant to your presentation.

  1. Neuropsychological Testing

We explore areas like memory, planning, emotional regulation, and task follow-through using validated tools that uncover what’s really going on beneath the surface.

  1. Full History & Record Review

Medical and mental health records (if available) are reviewed to gain a holistic understanding of your needs.

  1. Feedback Session

We review your results together — clearly, compassionately, and without clinical jargon. You’ll leave understanding what was found, what it means, and what comes next.

You don’t have to figure this out alone.

Frequently Asked Questions

FAQs About Adult Autism ADHD and AuDHD Assessments

What is an adult autism assessment?

An adult autism assessment is a comprehensive clinical evaluation that uses validated diagnostic tools to determine whether you meet criteria for Autism Spectrum Disorder. It goes beyond checklists to explore your history, patterns, and lived experience — providing clarity, language, and a path forward.

How much does an adult autism assessment cost in California?

At Love on the Autism Spectrum, an adult autism assessment costs $1,500, completed over five 50-minute telehealth sessions. Optional report fees apply if a written diagnostic report is desired. Out-of-pocket payment is required; a Superbill is provided for potential insurance reimbursement. What shapes the cost of an adult autism assessment in California.

 

How much does an adult ADHD assessment cost in California?

An adult ADHD assessment at Love on the Autism Spectrum costs $900, completed over three 50-minute telehealth sessions. Out-of-pocket payment is required; a Superbill is provided for potential insurance reimbursement.

What is AuDHD and how is it assessed?

AuDHD describes the experience of living with both Autism Spectrum Disorder and ADHD. An AuDHD assessment integrates the full diagnostic protocols for both conditions — including clinical interview, validated tools for autism and ADHD, and differential diagnosis — to understand how the two neurotypes interact in your specific presentation. At Love on the Autism Spectrum, an AuDHD assessment costs $1,800.

Can adults be diagnosed with autism later in life?

Yes. Many adults — especially women, BIPOC individuals, and high-masking people — go undiagnosed with autism until midlife or later. Late diagnosis is increasingly common and can be profoundly clarifying. An affirming adult autism assessment is designed to see you clearly, regardless of how well you’ve learned to mask.

Are assessments done online or in person?

All assessments at Love on the Autism Spectrum are completed via telehealth — fully online and available to adults throughout California. This offers flexibility and comfort, allowing you to complete the process from your own home.

Do I need a referral to get an assessment?

No referral is needed. You can book a FREE 20-minute "Clarity & Connection" Zoom session to talk through whether an assessment is right for you, and we’ll take it from there.

Does insurance cover neurodivergent assessments?

Insurance is not accepted directly. Out-of-pocket payment is required. A Superbill is provided after each session, which you can submit to your insurance company for potential reimbursement. It’s worth contacting your insurer in advance to ask about out-of-network mental health benefits.

What if I’m not autistic or ADHD after the assessment?

You still leave with valuable insights. The process is designed to support you in understanding your neurotype — whatever the outcome. Many clients find the process itself clarifying, regardless of the final diagnosis.

Will the assessment process be overwhelming?

Sessions are paced to honor your nervous system. You’ll always have space to ask questions, slow down, or take breaks. The process is designed to feel safe, not stressful.

Barbara (Blaze) Lazarony, LMFT, founder of Love on the Autism Spectrum 2026

Your Clinician

Barbara (Blaze) Lazarony, MA, LMFT

I’m Barbara (Blaze) Lazarony, MA, LMFT #151788— a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with advanced training in Autism, ADHD, and Complex Trauma. I discovered my own neurodivergence at 57, and that realization shapes everything about how I approach this work. My assessments are relational, affirming, and paced for your nervous system — not a checklist and a handshake.

Assessments available to adults in California only · All sessions via telehealth

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Balance & Bonding Retreat

A two-day private intensive — virtual or in-person — for one neurodiverse couple.

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The Love Lab

An ongoing weekly group for 3–4 neurodiverse couples — small, intentional, real attention.

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