Autism in Relationships Blog
Unlocking the Benefits of Autism Couples Therapy
Imagine a world where your unique way of thinking and communicating is embraced, celebrated, and supported. That's the goal of neurodiverse couples therapy. It's an inclusive approach that recognizes the diverse ways our brains work and helps couples navigate the...
What Does Healthy Anger Look Like? Embracing David Richo’s Insights
Anger is a universal human emotion, yet it often carries a negative connotation. Anger is a ‘natural emotion’ that, when managed properly, can lead to personal growth. But what if we told you that when understood and managed properly, anger could catalyze personal...
Autism and Marriage: Problems and Strategies for Navigating Relationships
A neurodiverse marriage, where one partner is on the autism spectrum, brings unique challenges and opportunities, often leading to autism spectrum disorders and marriage problems. Understanding and embracing these differences is essential for a solid and lasting bond....
Neurotypical vs Neurodivergent Communication: A Guide to Differences
In a world where diversity is celebrated, it’s vital to recognize that our brains, too, contribute to the rich tapestry that makes us unique. Neurodiversity – the concept that neurological variations are a natural and valuable form of human diversity – has gained...
Can Neurodiverse Relationships Work? 8 Ways to Build Effective Communication
Understanding and navigating communication in relationships can often feel like a minefield. This is especially true for neurodiverse couples, where different ways of processing information, including conditions like autism spectrum disorder, ADHD, and OCD, can...
Autism Interoception: The Elusive Undercurrent of Health
Have you ever paid attention to the rhythm of your heartbeat when you’re nervous or noticed how your stomach churns when you’re anxious? Often overlooked internal sensations form the basis of interoception – an essential yet often overlooked aspect of our mental and...
Spotting and Understanding Autistic Burnout One Step at a Time
Imagine constantly trying to adapt to a world that doesn't understand you. For many autistic adults, this is a daily reality, often resulting in a debilitating condition known as autistic burnout. In this blog post, we'll delve into the complexities of autistic...
Insights into Pathological Demand Avoidance Treatment
Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) presents unique challenges for individuals and their families. This intricate condition, marked by extreme avoidance of everyday demands, often leaves those affected overwhelmed and misunderstood. In this blog post, we aim to...
Autism and Emotional Intimacy for Neurodiverse Couples
Understanding Autism and Relationships What is Autism? Autism, also known as Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), is a neurological condition that affects how individuals perceive and interact with the world around them. It is characterized by difficulties in social...
Unlocking Alexithymia: A Silence of Emotional Expression
Imagine the world of emotions as a vibrant, colorful landscape, where each hue represents a different feeling. Now, picture a person navigating this landscape, unable to discern the colors and struggling to communicate their inner experiences. This is the world of...
Coping and Thriving After a Late-in-Life Autism Diagnosis
A late-in-life autism diagnosis can change your perspective on yourself and your past. This guide will walk you through understanding the emotional impacts, managing relationships, and practical adjustments post-diagnosis. Learn how to navigate the new aspects of your...
Unveiling the Challenges of Autism in Women
Autism spectrum disorder (ASD) has long been perceived as a predominantly male condition, with males being diagnosed at a rate of approximately four times more than females. This skewed perception has contributed to a diagnostic gap for autism in women, who often face...
The 8 F’s of Trauma Response: How to Better Understand Your Body
Trauma survivors often have to cope with various physical and emotional symptoms. While not everyone responds in the same way, eight common “F” words can help you understand your body's response to a traumatic event. By learning more about these responses to traumatic...
AuADHD: Exploring Autistic and ADHD Symptoms in Adults
The intricate dance of human interactions can prove challenging for anyone. Still, for adults with AuADHD, meaning that one person has both autism spectrum disorder (ASD) and attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), this dance can feel like navigating a...
Exploring Autism and Sexuality: A Comprehensive Overview
Autism and sexuality are often overlooked in mainstream conversations. However, understanding the intersection of these two critical aspects of human life is crucial for the well-being and fulfillment of autistic individuals. In this blog post, we will shed light on...
How ADHD Impacts Relationships
Have you ever wondered how ADHD impacts relationships? Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) can significantly impact romantic relationships. For couples where one or both partners have ADHD, navigating the complexities of daily life can pose unique...
Neurodivergence: A Comprehensive Guide
Did you know that approximately 30% of the population has a neurodivergent condition, such as Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), or a learning disability? Neurodivergence is the natural variation in human brain function...
Understanding Your Husband with Autism Tips for Women Relationships
Navigating the complexities of a relationship is never easy, but when you think your husband has autism spectrum disorder (ASD), the challenges can be even more significant. How can you best support him, understand his unique perspective, and build a successful...
Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, Neurodiversity Through Love
Are you struggling to cope with the symptoms of complex post-traumatic stress disorder and neurodiversity? Are you feeling overwhelmed, hopeless, and like no one understands your pain? It's time to break free from that cycle - it's time to find comfort in love and...
Navigating the Storm: Unmasking the Hidden Symptoms of Complex PTSD
Do you find yourself spinning from one emotional extreme to the other? Are your relationships constantly in turmoil? Does it feel like there's no end in sight for your struggles with depression, anxiety, and personal chaos?You may be dealing with Complex Post...
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Hi, I am Barbara (Blaze) Lazarony, MA, the founder of Love on the Autism Spectrum and writer behind the Autism in Relationships blog. I am also a Neurodivergent Therapist and Coach, holding a master’s degree in clinical psychology from Sofia University, with specialized training in ASD, ADHD, and Complex Trauma.
I offer therapy and coaching to individuals and couples, couples retreats and groups, and ASD and ADHD Assessments. I also have 20 years of therapeutic and coaching experience in various settings in California and worldwide.
Today, I help neurodiverse individuals and couples navigate the challenges of misunderstandings, loss of intimacy and connection, and the utter loneliness in their relationship. I support them in rewriting their broken communication patterns to express empathy, deepen connection, and experience the joy of their lives and relationships.
Who says navigating autism in relationships is impossible? Trust me to help you empower your love story at Love on the Autism Spectrum.