California Therapist & Worldwide Coach
Contact Neurodivergent Therapist and Coach, Barbara (Blaze) Lazarony, LMFT
Greetings and Welcome to Love on the Autism Spectrum,
I’m Barbara (Blaze) Lazarony, MA, LMFT—a neurodivergent therapist, coach, and guide.
It’s an honor to walk alongside individuals and couples exploring what it means to live and love with more clarity, connection, and emotional safety.
I’m a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (#151788), a Professional Clinical Counselor (#10253), and an Advanced Certified Integral Coach. More importantly, I’m someone who understands—both clinically and personally—what it means to move through the world differently.
My Mission
To help you feel safe in your truth. Whether you’re navigating a diagnosis, decoding your relationships, or simply looking for support that doesn’t pathologize who you are, I offer a space of compassion, curiosity, and deep respect.
I support neurodivergent adults and couples in creating lives and partnerships grounded in self-awareness, emotional clarity, and mutual understanding.
What I Offer
- Individual Therapy & Coaching
- Couples Therapy & Coaching
- Coaching for Neurodivergent Adults & Partners
- Private Neurodiverse Couples Retreat
- Adult Autism & ADHD Assessments
- Private Neurodiverse Couples Retreat
- Couples Support Groups
- Love on the Autism Spectrum, a weekly Apple Podcast
My Lens
As a neurodivergent therapist and coach, I bring both lived experience and professional expertise.
I’ve survived cancer three times, and I’ve been in a neurodivergent relationship for over 40 years.
These experiences have shaped my understanding of resilience, empathy, and what real support looks like.
My approach integrates evidence-based methods (EFT, IFS, CBT, Brainspotting) with intuitive, heart-centered care.
You don’t need to “fix” yourself—you just need someone who gets it, and can help you reconnect with your own rhythm, needs, and voice.
Safe Space. Real Talk.
Seeking support is a brave act. Finding a therapist who truly sees you is essential.
My priority is creating a space where you feel safe to explore, question, and grow—without judgment or pressure.
I welcome clients of all races, abilities, genders, orientations, faiths, and lived experiences.
This is your space to be fully you.
Who I Work With
I’m proud to be an affiliate therapist and coach with:
Registered Associate Professional Clinical Counselor #10253, Supervised by Dr. Harry Motro, LMFT #53452
Ready to Begin?
If this resonates with you, I invite you to Book a “Clarity & Connection” Zoom—my initial consultation designed to gently explore what support could look like. Click the orange button above to answer ten quick questions, then choose a time on my calendar. Easy peasy, thoughtful, and pressure-free.
Let’s begin your next chapter—with compassion, clarity, and care.
Directions
From San Francisco:
- Get on US-101 S
- Continue on US-101 S. Take I-280 S, CA-85 S, US-101 S, and CA-1 S to Del Monte Ave in Monterey. Take exit 402B from CA-1
- Continue on Del Monte Ave. Take Lighthouse Ave and Central Ave to Ridge Rd in Pacific Grove, California
From Los Angeles:
- Get on US-101 N
- Drive from I-5 N to Kern County. Take exit 278 from I-5 N
- Get on CA-1 S/CA-68 W in Monterey from CA-46 W and US-101 N
- Follow CA-1 S/CA-68 W. Take exit 399A from CA-1 S/CA-68 W
- Take CA-68 W and Sunset Dr to Ridge Rd in Pacific Grove, California