California Therapist & Worldwide Coach

Contact Neurodivergent Therapist and Coach, Barbara (Blaze) Lazarony, LMFT

Greetings and Welcome to Love on the Autism Spectrum,

My name is Barbara (Blaze) Lazarony, MA, LMFT.

I’m honored to walk alongside individuals and couples, exploring what it means to live and love authentically as neurodivergent beings. I’m a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (#151788), a Professional Clinical Counselor (#10253), a dedicated Neurodivergent Therapist, and an Advanced Certified Integral Coach.

 

My Mission

I aim to help you feel safe in your truth. Whether you’re navigating a diagnosis, decoding your relationships, or searching for clarity in a world that often misunderstands differences—I offer a space of compassion, curiosity, and deep respect.

I support neurodiverse individuals and couples in creating lives and partnerships rooted in self-awareness, emotional safety, and mutual understanding.

 

What I Offer

  • Individual & Couples Therapy (California residents)

  • Coaching for Neurodivergent Adults and Partners (Worldwide)

  • Couples Intensives & Retreats

  • Adult Autism and ADHD Assessments

  • Support Groups & Community Spaces

Every offering is customized. No two neurodivergent experiences are the same—and neither are my sessions.

My Lens

As a neurodivergent therapist and coach myself, I bring lived experience and clinical expertise to my work.

Surviving cancer three times has endowed me with a profound understanding of facing adversity, cultivating resilience, and embracing the complexities of the human experience.

Additionally, being in a neurodiverse relationship for over 35 years has given me firsthand insight into the unique challenges and strengths of such partnerships.

My approach blends evidence-based therapy (like EFT, IFS, CBT, and Brainspotting) with the heart-based understanding needed for lasting change.

You don’t need to “fix” yourself. You just need someone who gets it—and can help you rediscover your own rhythm, needs, and voice.

 

Safe Space. Real Talk.

Seeking support is a brave step. Finding a therapist who truly sees you is essential. My first priority is building a space where you feel safe to explore, question, and grow—without judgment or pressure.

I welcome clients of all races, abilities, gender identities, sexual orientations, faiths, and lived experiences.

This is your space to be fully you.

 

Who I Work With

I’m proud to be an affiliate therapist and coach with:

Supervised by Dr. Harry Motro, LMFT #53452

 

Ready to Begin?

If this resonates with you, I invite you to Book an Initial Consultation Here, or you can click the orange button. I’ll invite you to answer nine quick questions, and then you’ll receive an email to book an Initial Consultation directly on my calendar. Easy peasy.

Together, we’ll create a path toward deeper connection, self-understanding, and lasting transformation.

Let’s begin your next chapter—with compassion, clarity, and care.

Directions

From San Francisco:

  • Get on US-101 S
  • Continue on US-101 S. Take I-280 S, CA-85 S, US-101 S, and CA-1 S to Del Monte Ave in Monterey. Take exit 402B from CA-1
  • Continue on Del Monte Ave. Take Lighthouse Ave and Central Ave to Ridge Rd in Pacific Grove, California

From Los Angeles:

  • Get on US-101 N
  • Drive from I-5 N to Kern County. Take exit 278 from I-5 N
  • Get on CA-1 S/CA-68 W in Monterey from CA-46 W and US-101 N
  • Follow CA-1 S/CA-68 W. Take exit 399A from CA-1 S/CA-68 W
  • Take CA-68 W and Sunset Dr to Ridge Rd in Pacific Grove, California