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Steady, thoughtful support for neurodivergent couples & adults.
Whether you're ready to book a conversation, have a question first, or just want something to read while you decide — there's a path here that meets you where you are. Take your time.
Three Ways to Connect
Choose What Feels Right
Every path here is gentle, no-pressure, and made for nervous systems that need a slower, kinder on-ramp.

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A real conversation — just the two of us. No intake forms, no clinical distance. We talk through what's happening for you and whether working together makes sense.
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What Happens Next
A Gentle, Predictable Process
No surprises. No pressure. Just a clear path forward.
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You Reach Out
Book a Zoom, send an email, or grab the guide. Whatever feels like the right size of step today.
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We Connect
If you book a call, we meet for 20 minutes — a real conversation, not an intake. If you email, I'll respond personally.
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You Decide
No pressure either way. You'll have what you need to choose what comes next — at your pace.
What Clients Often Tell Me
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You don't try to fix me… but somehow things start making sense.
A common thread in the work — paraphrased, shared with reflection rather than as a direct testimonial.
Are We a Fit?
Quick Things to Know
I want this to be the right space for you — so here's the practical stuff up front, before we ever meet.
Outside California? My coaching practice is worldwide — book a Zoom or email me to explore what's possible.
- Based in Pacific Grove, on the Monterey Peninsula. Therapy is by telehealth across California, and the Balance & Bonding Retreat can meet in person here or online anywhere in the world.
- Telehealth therapy is California-only (state licensure)
- Coaching & consultation available worldwide via Zoom
- Specializing in neurodivergent couples & adults — Autism, ADHD, AuDHD & Complex Trauma
- Affirming space for all identities, neurotypes, and lived experience
- Trauma-informed, nervous-system-aware, no toxic positivity
- Sliding-scale options available — just ask
What I Offer
Services Available to You
Five ways we can work together — pick the one that meets you where you are.
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Couples Therapy & Coaching
For neurodiverse couples ready to understand each other's wiring and build a partnership that fits how you both actually function.
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Partners of Neurodivergent Adults
Support for the partner carrying the emotional weight — including Cassandra Syndrome, AfDD, and OTRS — so your needs finally matter, too.
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Therapy for Autistic & ADHD Adults
Individual therapy for late-diagnosed autistic, ADHD, and AuDHD adults navigating identity, unmasking, and self-trust.
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Balance & Bonding Retreat
A two-day private intensive for one neurodiverse couple — virtual or in-person — to reset, reconnect, and create a real plan together.
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The Love Lab
An ongoing weekly online group for 3–4 neurodiverse couples — small enough that every partnership gets real attention.
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Adult Assessments
Comprehensive Autism, ADHD, and AuDHD evaluations for late-diagnosed and high-masking adults. California only.
Frequently Asked Questions
What People Often Want to Know
How do I know if you're the right therapist or coach for me?
The free 20-minute "Clarity & Connection" Zoom is designed exactly for this. It's not an intake — it's a real conversation where we both get a sense of fit. No pressure either way.
You can also read more about my background and approach before deciding to reach out.
What's the difference between therapy and coaching?
Therapy is a clinical, licensed practice — available only to clients in California due to state licensure laws. It includes diagnosis, treatment planning, and is typically eligible for insurance reimbursement.
Coaching is available worldwide via Zoom. It's a forward-focused, growth-oriented relationship — equally deep, but not bound by clinical regulations or geographic limits.
What is your per session rate and do you offer sliding-scale fees?
My session rate is $300 for a 50-minute session, whether we’re meeting individually or as a couple.
A limited number of sliding-scale sessions are available at a reduced rate, based on your annual gross income. These spaces are reserved for clients experiencing financial hardship and are offered as part of my commitment to accessibility and equity in care.
At this time, there is a waitlist for these reduced-rate sessions. If you’d like to be notified when a space becomes available, please let me know.
If you are interested in booking a Private Neurodiverse Couples Retreat, I’ll provide those rates separately based on the structure and duration of your retreat.
In addition, I have a large referral network that I can share with you that offer lower rates, many times as low as $150 per session.
You’re always welcome to ask for an estimate of your expected costs. I’ll provide this in writing as a Good Faith Estimate, in alignment with federal guidelines under the No Surprises Act.
Your session fee includes our full 50 minutes together, as well as the time I spend between sessions reviewing notes, reflecting on our work, and preparing resources in your secure client portal to support your ongoing growth.
Additional professional services—such as support letters, case research, or consultation with other healthcare providers—are billed in 15-minute increments at the same hourly rate.
Please note that I have a 48-hour cancellation policy. If you need to cancel or reschedule your session, I ask that you provide at least 48 hours’ notice. Cancellations made with less than 48 hours’ notice—or missed sessions without notice—will be charged the full session fee.
How long are sessions, and how often do we meet?
Standard sessions are 50 minutes. Couples sessions are typically 50, 75, or 90 minutes. We usually meet weekly at the start, then taper as you build skills and integration. You'll never be locked into a frequency that doesn't fit your life.
What should I expect in our first session?
Slow. Spacious. Conversational. We'll talk about what's bringing you here, what you've already tried, and what you'd like to feel different. There's no script. Your nervous system sets the pace.
I don't push for vulnerability. I let it arrive on its own timing.
What if I'm not in California?
My coaching practice is worldwide. I work with neurodivergent adults and couples across the U.S. and internationally via Zoom. The depth of the work is the same — only the legal/clinical framework differs.
What's your cancellation policy?
I ask for at least 48 hours' notice for cancellations or reschedules. Late cancellations or no-shows are typically charged the full session fee. Life happens — we'll work with you on genuine emergencies.
Office Hours
- Monday9 AM – 5 PM PT
- TuesdayOffice Day Only
- Wednesday9 AM – 5 PM PT
- Thursday9 AM – 5 PM PT
- Friday9 AM – Noon PT
Other days by appointment only.
Prefer to Call?
Leave a voicemail with your name and a brief message — I'll return your call during office hours. For faster response, email or book a Zoom directly.
Your message is confidential. I'm the only one who reads emails and listens to voicemails.
What I Offer
Other Places We Can Connect
Not ready to reach out yet? You can also find me here.
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Substack
Deeper reflections and behind-the-scenes writing on neurodivergent love.
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The Podcast
Love on the Autism Spectrum® — new episodes every Wednesday.
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Unmasked Self-Acceptance
365 Days of Coming Home to Who You Really Are.
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Behind-the-scenes moments and quick relationship insights.
"Take a breath. Settle in. I'm so glad you're here."
Barbara (Blaze) Lazarony, MA, LMFT #151788
(831) 222-1559 · loveontheautismspectrum.com
Pacific Grove, California · Telehealth · California Only (Therapy) · Worldwide (Coaching)
